April 2013

Feeling Dirty Finally

Caressing my friend, Jeff’s, muscular calves, touching the flickers of his brown leg hairs peeking through torn fishnets, confirmed my suspicions last Monday night.

Not that Jeff is a closet transvestite, or cross dresser who has always longed to wear women’s corsets or high-heeled leopard pumps. Or that he is practicing to strut his stuff as the next contestant on RuPaul’s Drag Queen Race hit reality show.

But it was apparent that Jeff was having way too much fun playing “Brad” on stage in a community theatre production of the “Rocky Horror Show” a tribute to science fiction and horror B movies, that swept most of the audience back in time to the 1970’s.

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Feeling the glow after meeting up with my always witty friend, Mary, in Kensington Market last week, I took my time, pulling out of the Green P parking lot, smiling and reflecting on how much great stuff we can pack into our one hour visits but it’s never enough time.

As I drove past the eclectic food and clothing stores, I’m not sure why, but I noticed her. This woman dressed in a long black winter coat, a grey woolen scarf wrapped around her neck to just below her nostrils, her big brown eyes peeking out, and two distinct grey braids cascading down past her shoulders, framing her oval face. Perhaps, it was the way she walked, her body perfectly erect, that made me glance again. Then it hit me, “That’s my grade 4 teacher, Ms. Tadman from Snowcrest Public School,” the sexy red-headed woman who undressed down to her lacy black brassiere in front of us to change for gym. The very same woman who inspired us 9 year-old girls to be feminists, to be proud of our sprouting breasts, maybe even forfeit our bras, and to stand up for Aboriginal rights.

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